Stop chasing inconsistent love & become the woman who is always chosen.
You did not come here to beg a man to love you or convince him of why he should be with you.
Let’s collapse the identity of the woman who believes that she needs to be perfect, in order to be loved,
and rebuild her as the woman who gets to be wild, messy, deeply herself — and chosen by the love of her life.
You’re going to want to write this down…
… but if that man is the love of your life, then you should not have to change yourself for him. You keep trying to become the person that you think he wants… meanwhile, the only person that he wants, is you. The more that you change fundamental parts of who you are, the more you stray away from being the woman of his dreams. Of course, he runs away from you.
But this is not about him — his hot-and-cold patterns. His “treating you like his girlfriend, while withholding commitment,” ways. His prolonged silence after a fight. The girls he follows. The reluctance to call it a relationship.
One day he’s in, the next day he’s out. You don’t understand it.
Meanwhile, what if I told you that you’re doing the same thing… but with yourself?
It does not matter how "non-committed” he may seem. When you stop entertaining a hot-and-cold, situationship-like relationship with yourself, either he will rise to meet you, or he will get out of the way and make space for the man who will.
Nothing brings the commitment out of a man more than a woman who is fully, completely, 100% committed to herself.
But right now, you’re stuck in patterns of…
✔️ Leaking and shrinking your energy — When he pulls away, you bleed out to try to get him back (constantly calling him, texting him, or posting with the hopes that he’ll see it). When he does finally come back, you shrink yourself into the so-called “perfect” version of you, so that he doesn’t get upset and run away again.
✔️ Making excuses for him — You’ve psychoanalyzed him to understand his behavior. Smart, in theory, but now you make constant excuses for why you tolerate his bullsh*t… meanwhile, you’re building up resentment by the hour. You have so much empathy that you’re now settling and accepting the crumbs that he offers you.
✔️ Attaching to potential — You see the man that he could be and the life that you know that two could have together. Your intuitive vision is likely right, but you have no idea how to get there. It feels so far away, so what do you do? You…
✔️ Performing for his love — You tell yourself that if you just show up perfectly, he will commit. If you play the role of the perfect wife or girlfriend, then one day, he will wake up and decide to choose you. You’re burning the candle at both ends, praying that today will be the day it comes — and guess what, it never does.
Hi, I’m Hannah
You wanna know why I can read you to absolute filth?
It’s because I was that woman too.
For years, I was the woman who settled in her relationships, accepted breadcrumbs, and tolerated absolute bullsh*t, hot-and-cold, on-and-off relationships with men, because I believed in their potential. Deep down, I knew that staying in these dynamics were wrong… but when I met the love of my life, I also couldn’t shake the feeling deep in my bones that in-spite of the back-and-forth, we were meant to be together.
The typical relationship advice didn’t feel like it applied to me. How could I just up-and-leave, when I felt such an intuitive pull to this man? Something that I’d never felt in any other relationships before? And if my feeling was correct, then why was our relationship so complicated?
These were the questions that I asked myself for years, as I walked myself through the coaching framework that I’m now here to share with you.
The one that honors the sacredness of your intuition, with your emotional and relational needs as a woman. The one that doesn’t tell you to leave the man — but rather, to leave behind the parts of yourself that are deeply afraid of being loved.
There is nobody in the industry that is coaching relationships in this way.
And I’m living proof that your intuition is always right.
Introducing
The Private 1:1 Coaching Experience
A high-support, personalised coaching container created for deep inner transformation.
What’s Included:
BI-WEEKLY 1:1 coaching sessions
PersonaliZed rELATIONSHIP AUDIT
Unlimited TELEGRAM MESSAGING
3 MONTHS OF DEDICATED SUPPORT
SPECIAL WELLNESS OFFERS + GIFTS FOR YOU
The Process
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During this brief 20 minute call, we will discuss your relationship, your goals, and determine if working together is a fit.
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After onboarding, you will receive a link to complete the Relationship Audit Intake Form — this will allow me to get an inside look at your relationship and map out our work together. Within one week, you will receive a personalized audio podcast, which will contain feedback, intuitive guidance, and tangible steps that we will take together, during our three months.
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Each month, you will receive two (2) 1:1 60 minute Zoom sessions with me. These sessions are recorded.
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We will connect on Telegram for voice messaging and text support, in-between our sessions. You may message me on Telegram any time. I respond to messages Monday — Thursday.
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After our three months together, you may choose to exit our container, or continue on a month-to-month basis for as long as you would desire.
Your Investment
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Your Investment /
3-Month Private Coaching
$6,000*
✔ BI-WEEKLY 1:1 coaching sessions
✔ PersonaliZed rELATIONSHIP AUDIT
✔ Unlimited TELEGRAM MESSAGING
*Or three monthly installments of $2,000
HANSIKA IS A WIFE
SPOILER ALERT: THEY’RE MARRIED
Hannah has helped me take me to the next level of my spiritual journey. I have been committed to “doing the work” for years now - journaling, meditating, reading, healing - and wasn’t sure if investing in a coaching container with Hannah was necessary because I could do the work on my own. In the past year of working with Hannah, I’ve shape-shifted into a version of myself that feels even more like me and I’ve embraced being in a state of flow, truly trusting that things will work out. I’m able to move through my life with more ease, freedom, positivity, and love. If you’re on the fence about signing up with Hannah, I’ll give you my two-line testimony: during my third coaching session with Hannah, we connected with my inner voice and after releasing a big block around relationships, my inner voice told me that my life partner would walk into my living room that weekend. We’re celebrating our first anniversary in March.
EMILY DID A 180
“ One of the best investments i’ve ever made.”
Working with Hannah truly changed my life. When we started, I was feeling frustrated, anxious, and rather hopeless in my romantic life. Through our weekly sessions + Telegram support, I strengthened my sense of Self worth and confidence to the point where everything in my life started to change. The men I’d been caught up on and unable to let go started to come back into my life and yet I no longer saw them in the same way. I broke through soooo many limiting beliefs and truly rewrote the narrative of how I move through my day to day life. My close friends have all commented on how differently I show up and respond in situations with guys (and work) now. Which is great, to have people notice the changes that I feel within! Hannah does a wonderful job of creating the container and guiding with a firm yet loving energy AND it’s up to you to show up and actually create the change. Something I really admire about her coaching style! This experience helped me expand and evolve into the version of me who feels empowered and magnetic in relationships, work, and overall life. One of the best investments I’ve ever made in myself (and life).
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RELATIONSHIP
RENAISSANCE
A 9-month group mastermind for lovergirls who refuse to lose the love of their life to “almost” relationships
… aka, everything I cover in my 1:1 coaching, but in a group of incredible women.
THE WRITING
A MOMENT OF TRTH
A collection of essays on life, “complicated” love, and spirituality… straight from my journal, to you.
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